Dating your spouse? It seems almost strange since you’re already married, but dating is exactly how you became interested in each other in the first place. So this Valentine’s Day, spice things up by setting a hot date with that special someone in your life.

Here are a few ideas:

• Did you have the time of your life during your honeymoon? Why not try it again. Recreate some of those special moments, even if you don’t leave the house.
   
• The couple that learns together stays together. Delve into the history of classical composers with an online class at the local college; attend a wallpaper hanging class at the hardware store or spring for a wreath making session. The options are endless.
   
• You could also try playing a game together. Co-op gaming is all the rage these days, so grab a controller and bring a special friend along. Whether you’re slaying evil monsters, solving cryptic puzzles or building the perfect digital town, you’re certain to find just the right digital getaway.
   
• For something a little less taxing, try a picnic. Yes, it’s probably cold and snowy outside, so do it indoors… by candlelight… with soft music… well, you get the idea.

Whatever activities you and your spouse find for Valentine’s Day, the important thing is to do something together. Even if it isn’t fancy or other people’s idea of a ‘hot date’, it’s how great memories and great marriages are made.

You wake up, go to the office and sit in front of a computer all day. Your eyeballs are about the only parts of your body that are getting any exercise. You know you should move around more, but who has the time for that?

Well… you’d be surprised what you can squeeze into a busy day. Try these suggestions to get out of that chair and give your eyes a much needed breather.

Take the stairs. You’ll get some exercise, save some time and avoid being crammed into an elevator. What’s not to like?

Park and walk. Instead of circling around like a vulture waiting for that perfect parking space to open near the door, take the opportunity to do a little walking.

Get a sit-to-stand Desk. Standing rather than sitting may not seem like much, but it can help prevent cramping, stiff muscles and back problems that chronic chair-sitters experience. According to one study it may also lower your blood sugar and surprisingly… burn more calories.

Deskercise. You don’t need a full-fledged gym to add some movement to your day. Here are some exercises you can try even if you’re tethered to a phone for hours at a time.

Volunteer. The meeting’s about to start, but someone needs to go down to the printer on the next floor to get the sales reports you’re going to be reviewing. Volunteer to go get them. Within reason, volunteer for anything that gets you up and moving around.

Most of all, commit to move. It only takes a few minutes of your day, and even a few little things each day can add up to a big difference into your health.

Yes, it’s that happy time of the year when we crunch numbers, dig up old receipts, sweat a little and then send our yearly financial summary off to be graded by the IRS. So what changes are in store this year?

As with every new tax year, there will be incremental increases in the standard deduction and personal exemption amounts. This article from Forbes provides a good summary of the new numbers for 2018.

So what else is happening beyond these annual changes? 

The tuition and fees deduction will disappear. Previously you were able to claim this deduction as a subtraction to income even if you weren’t able to itemize. The American Opportunity Tax Credit and the Lifelong Learning Tax Credit, two other popular deductions, will remain the same.

Another change is to the Earned Income Tax Credit. While this credit hasn’t been eliminated by any means, it may be a little more difficult to claim. In an effort to crack down on fraud, the new PATH Act prevents the IRS from sending out refunds before February 15th to anyone claiming the credit.

Indebtedness related to home foreclosure will also look a little different. Due to the housing crisis about a decade ago, taxpayers were able to discharge up to $2 million dollars of indebtedness. That will no longer be an option starting with your 2017 tax return.

For more information on these changes, as well as for general tax questions, you can visit the IRS website. As always, if you have concerns, please consult a qualified tax professional before filing your return.

Two, four, six, eight… who do you appreciate?

It may be a family member, your best friend, your coworker or that awesome second-grade teacher you still keep in touch with. Have you stopped to thank these wonderful souls and let them know how much you appreciate everything they do? If not, there’s no time like the present. If you still need a little encouragement though, there’s always National Compliment Day. 

This January 24^th holiday, created in 1998 by New Hampshire residents Kathy Chamberlin and Debby Hoffman, was designed to showcase the power of compliments. Compliments can instill confidence in children and adults alike. They can improve the mood around our offices, the efficiency in our homes and the productivity in our schools. If that weren’t enough, they can lead to less stress and healthier lives.

Sounds pretty complimentary, right?

If you’d like to give someone that long overdue thank you, here are some things to remember:

Try to be original. Take some time to reflect on what it is about the other person that you admire and build your compliment from there.

Try to be sincere. Nothing is worse than fake compliments. Give a compliment because you mean it, not because you’re expected to.

Try not to manipulate. The point of giving compliments is to show appreciation, not to maneuver someone into doing what you want. 

So don’t let National Compliment Day pass you by. Better yet, make any day a compliment day and let others know how much you appreciate what they do.

It’s cold, snowy and dismal outside. You don’t have to be one of the Starks on Game of Thrones to know winter is coming. In the spirit of the season, here are some ways to get through this chilly time of year.

• Dryer sheets can do more than make your clothes smell fresh. Rub them on your clothing and even your hair to counteract that pesky winter static.
   
• Just walking around in the dry winter air can build up a static charge on your fingers. It’s why you get zapped when you reach for a doorknob. Touching a glass or wood surface before reaching for the door knob helps discharge the static, saving you from an annoying surprise.
   
• Tired of shelling out money for rock salt? Try cat litter to add some extra grit to those slippery surfaces. Since cat litter is really just hardened clay pellets, it's also easier on the environment.  
   
• Winter is a great time to do some baking. The extra heat from the oven can offer a welcome respite from winter’s chill.
   
• Enjoy some mood lighting with candles. Not only do they provide the perfect atmosphere, but they produce heat as well. As always, take the appropriate safety precautions with open flame.

Winter may be a tough time of year, but it doesn’t have to be miserable. If you’re not able to hibernate until spring, use these tips to make life easier this season.

In a 1957 speech in Montgomery, Alabama, Dr. Martin Luther King told his audience: “Life’s most persistent question is ‘What are you doing for others?’”  It was a motto that Dr. King lived his life by, and even years after his passing, it can still serve as an example. There is a lot of wisdom and happiness to be found by helping others.

It isn’t always easy. Though we’re told it’s better to give than to receive, giving can often make us feel worn out and even worse - taken advantage of. Here are some ways we can give and feel good about it:

Find something you love and share it.Whether it’s art, music, bike riding or skateboarding, chances are you’re passionate about something. Share it with others. Your love will show through and make the effort more genuine and more fulfilling.

Give to organizations you believe in.Giving for the sake of giving often doesn’t bring us any happiness, but giving to an organization we believe in can lead to a profound sense of accomplishment. We actually feel like we made a difference rather than just checking off a box.

Share in ways that fit you the best.Not everyone is a great public speaker or is at ease going door to door to raise awareness. You don’t have to be. Contribute in a way that makes you comfortable. If you’re a writer, then write. If you’re a coach, then coach. Find your niche and pursue it with passion.

Dr. King believed in serving his community, so honor his memory this year by helping others.